Came back of holiday Monday and didn’t want to live in reality 
so not done much and just sat feeling sorry for myself. Today my daughter came round and did some housework for me and then she left and i just sat there. After a while i thought sod it get up and do something 
so not long painted my son room and everything needed moving back. So i got him to help me go through boxes and started putting stuff back. Me and my son have lost our way since we lost my husband and his dad. But for the last hour and half we have done positive work.
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Pooppy77 it makes a difference to the long day’s and I’m disabled and now I’m having to rest 
hope your day is OK 
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That’s great @Judy10. Good for you.
I think many of us have lost our way on here - it takes time I suppose to find a new path, or to just motivate ourselves to get going with anything.
I seem to be able to spend copious amounts of time doing very little and being non-productive.
When I do get things done I feel better but it does drain your reserves.
After 6 weeks and multiple phone calls and emails chasing my husbands work to get a P60 so I can complete his tax return I got very stroppy with the poor man on the phone today.
Sometimes even when I do things the end result isn’t what you want so it feels so much harder to keep going.
Just gotta keep getting up each morning and hope it all gets a bit easier.
Love and strength to all xx
Roni52 morning and trust me I know that one about not doing much and the day just goes by and trying to sort out so much stuff is hard going. We have to take on so much and trying to grieve for our loved ones and it’s horrible to deal with. So much has changed in all of our lifes and it’s so difficult and hope your getting there with stuff. Big hugs 
to us all and getting through another day. Xx
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