Proof of Afterlife

Losing a parent
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This topic is the only thing that is keeping me going. Hearing people’s stories of seeing their loved ones in a dream, something supernatural happening to them, signs or ghosts.

I have always believed in ghosts and if they are real then surely the after life would also be.

My sister has had dreams of our beloved mother who has passed only a few weeks ago. In the dream she is playing with two children, my mother had lost two children in her lifespan. So I wonder has anyone else had experiences like this?

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Hello Zara, i feel the same of yourself.I like to believe there is an afterlife, its this thought that helps to keep me going too.I have read many books on the subject since losing my dear wife.There has to be a “bigger picture”.I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear mother.I have to admit i havent had any similar dreams but there have been occassions when i have sensed physical and mental “signs “.I try to keep my mind open to receiving these type of things.We are all different as human beings and some may have no religion or faith or belief in these things but i want to believe there is something more to what we know.

Thank you for your post Zara it was really interesting.

Take care.

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Hi, I’m so sorry to read about the passing of your beloved mum. Mine passed away 5 months ago. She was the kindest, sweetest soul you could ever meet. My heart is broken, and I fear for what the future lies ahead. Every day is endless, I can’t see a world in which my mum isn’t in it.

Regarding ‘dreams’, I’m quite skeptical (and probably a bit cynical) on these, as I think sometimes vulnerable people can interpret things because they want to believe. However…..

About a 2 months ago, I had a dream. It was clear as day, like watching a film, and I still remember everything about it, as if I just had it 5 minutes ago.

In the dream, my son and I went to visit my mum and dad’s house. As we got there, the house was in darkness. As we got closer, I could see there was a light on around the back. And through the front door, I could see my mum in the hall. Next, my mum, son and I are standing in the hall when my dad comes down the stairs, saying to my son “I hope you’ve brought money to buy me a cup of tea” (he always joked with my son about bringing money with him when we went to visit, then wouldn’t let him spend it). We all laughed, then the 4 of us stood in a circle and hugged. No more words were spoken.

I can still remember every last detail of the dream. It’s not gone foggy or cloudy. It makes me so emotional thinking about it (and typing it there). My dad’s world is absolutely shattered with mums passing, so to see and hear him laughing and joking like he used to do, is also gut-wrenching. Our lives will never be the same again.

I know dreams can be strange, or a bit surreal, but this dream was as clear as if I lived it yesterday. I will never ever forget it. The 4 of us, reunited in a circle, hugging. It knocks me for six still now.

I just wanted to share that, keep believing your mum is around.

God bless you

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I think you’re right keeping an open mind is key. I know some of these topics may sound crazy to some people but it’s not like it’s the first time. People have been passing since the beginning of time and yet this topic is very much alive, it’s still in people’s heads, religions and faiths. There must be something there. Otherwise what’s the point of it all?

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Wow Mikey! That dream sounds surreal. I think the way you feel during and after the dream tells you a lot about it too. To me as an outsider it sounds like a message that one day you’ll all be reunited again, that’s what the hug in the hallway represents to me. I’m not a spiritualist or anything but just an interpretation. With your dad, I can’t imagine how it must be to watch him be like this. I find asking questions about happier times helps some people. Asking him questions about her that only he knows, like their first date or their wedding.

For me, I believe the after life is real and we will be reunited with our loved ones. We don’t know how long we have left and I’m only 29, so being reunited feels too long away for me. Thinking of how much more life I have left without her fills me with dread. I now look at older people and wish I was their age so I’d be closer to being reunited with her. I know it’s not a good way to look at things but you’re mind goes to dark places during this time and nobody understands apart from those going through it.

Thanks for sharing your story. God bless x

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Yeah I believe it was a message. I’m normally quite hesitant to read too much into these things when other people tell them (like they want to believe so badly), but this was more like a memory, than a dream. I experienced a lot of emotions in the dream, all that are still extremely vivid today. I will remember it forever.

That’s understandable how you feel. I’ve been to dark, dark places since mum passed away. The pain, hurt and despair can be relentless and excruciating.

When walking through hell, don’t stop x

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How are you today @Zara12?

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Had another night of no sleep. I keep praying that she comes to my dream but I’m not falling asleep to allow her in. I’m going to get some sleep support from the doctors. I just want to be with her, that’s all I want. I miss her so much. Not sure what to do

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Not sleeping is horrendous, but understandable giving what you’re going through. I was the same, not sleeping and not eating. I was exhausted all the time, yet sleep would not come. I went the GP, I got given some medication which helps me sleep, and gives me a little appetite.

I wish I can wave a magic wand. Some days I just try and survive the day, literally that.

Do you have any support? Family or friends? They can’t fix anything, but they could maybe sit with you in the storm x

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How are you coping? Yeah I understand. I went into work for the first time today which was okay. It was a good distraction, that’s all it was. I tried not cry when someone asked how I was. Managed to keep it together. I took Nytol from boots last night which helped me finally sleep.

How long have you been going through this?

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Dear @Zara12 , first am really sorry for the loss of your mum, since my husband died 7 months ago of sudden cardiac arrest I have had a few experiences that convince me that our loved ones look over us. I just got a book called “Hello from Heaven” of people who have lovely experiences (including dreams) of their deceased loved ones. If you can get a copy am sure it will encourage you. Wishing you all the best

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I can resinate with wishing you could be older so les time to wait to reunite with our loved ones. . But if there is one thing I’m trying to learn is not to wish your life away as I often do, its difficult at times but I believe my mam ,dad and husband would want us to live our lives to full knowing we will be together again. I believe time in heaven is different and it’s more difficult for us who are left behind. But as you describe dreams can feel like a connection or message . But it can be difficult when your looking for signs and not receiving any . Its getting a balance. But I can also hear there voices is me giving me encouragement like they did.( even given me wrong sometimes :face_with_peeking_eye:) take care of yourself and know your mam will still be by your side.

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Anita, i hope you are finding some comfort in the book?i know it cant bring our dear loved ones back physically but we have to hold onto these things.I often think our journey in life on this earth is all about learning and unconditional love not necessarily the romantic kind but loving our fellow human beings, nature and the world we inhabit.its still a hard path we walk without our dear loved ones but i think there is more to things than what we are aware of.Take care.

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Lyn i agree with what you say.i have read various books since my dear wife passed away and many of them say that there is no time on the other side or calender as we have on earth and distance is not relevant either.I have found that sometimes when we ask for signs we dont always get them straight away, often we have to wait a while, they can be very subtle too.I got one this morning and i saw it on an item on breakfast news.Take care.

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Hi @brummy I couldn’t agree more. Yes, absolutely. All the faff that was so important when we were 20 and 30 seems so irrelevant today. What would I give to be again with my husband and be happy again? In this world or in the afterlife…

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Hi Anita, thanks for your message. It would be nice if you could share the experiences you’ve had but I understand if you’d prefer not to. I do take a lot of comfort in hear real people’s stories and experiences of the afterlife. The book sounds interesting - I’ll look into it. I hope you’re doing okay and I’m sorry for your loss too :heart:

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I really emphasise with how you’re feeling, I lost my Mum a week ago and it’s felt unbearable. Like I literally refuse to believe I can’t see her again as that reality feels impossible. I’m not sleeping either and feel a mess. It was just me and my Mum, my Dad passed a few years ago and I’m only just in my 30s. I feel so empty like life has lost its meaning. You’re not alone and I understand how hard it feels.

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When you’re parents were alive you would be there meaning also. Remember that .find a relationship with yourself and one day something good will happen again..Remember your parents are still with you :folded_hands: give life your best shot x

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I’m sorry to hear of your loss as well. It’s just so heartbreaking. I’m not taking sleeping meds to help. I feel as though it’s just a temporary fix. Everything feels so empty now. I’m 29 too and looking at the rest of my days without her here is so daunting. Feel like it wouldn’t have been as bad if I was much older, least I’d be closer to seeing her again. When people say try and make the most of this life I wonder what’s the point. Or when they say she wouldn’t want you to be sad, she’d want you to move on, it doesn’t help. I didn’t want her to leave and she did. Whenever someone asks if I’m ok, I just say yes because if I said what I really felt it’d drag them down too and they’d be worried. Hope you’re managing x

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I am taking sleeping meds*

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