I’m not being cold, callous, insensitive , heartless or any other adjective you wish to call me.

Regardless of whom & how we have lost them , we as adults all knew it would happen at some point - we just chose not to think of it. No-one is invincible.

I, like everyone else, struggle with what’s happened, but I can’t change anything, and so I’m doing the best I can - my way as I’d expect hubby to have done if I’d passed first.

After 50 years together there is a huge part missing in my life now - I can’t put it into words how much I miss him.

G. X


Hi G,

I’m the same as you I struggle, every day for me. I echo your final paragraph. I’m not pragmatic like you and that is meant in a complimentary way.

Take care.X