Hi I recently lost my partner very unexpected. We had really started to plan our lives together but all this and our future was taken away. I’ve never lost a partner before so I’m unsure in what to do during this time
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Hello @Jordanj,
I’m Seaneen, and I wanted to say thank you for bravely sharing this with the community. I hope you find it to be a support to you, but I am so sorry for the loss of your partner that brings you here.
This is a space where you can share your thoughts, memories, questions, or simply sit quietly among others who understand.
We know the early days in grief can feel completely overwhelming. We have created a resource called, “What to do when someone dies” which you might find helpful right now. It gently walks you through the steps you might need to take next, both emotionally and practically.
Please do be gentle with yourself, too. You are not alone.
Take care,
Seaneen
So sorry for your loss.
What a good looking couple.
Let everything out on here.
You are amongst people who care and understand.
And be flipping kind to yourself.
Sending probably a well needed hug my darling x
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Thankyou. Truly was a beauty inside and out. I don’t understand how people can get used to not having someone around anymore where they’ve been there every day. It’s so hard. I’m the one on the left my partner Scott is the handsome gentlemen ton the right
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It isn’t easy sweetheart, can’t pretend otherwise.
All I would say is use this site. Don’t hold back with anything! I did at first!
Your mindset will change over the coming weeks, months. How you deal with it may change too!
Just release, release!
Hugs x
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Sorry for your loss, get through your day any way you can . Keep posting on here let your feelings out
Take Care
it’s so hard to have a physical person in front of you one day then it all just becomes images in your head. This is by far the biggest thing I’ll ever deal with. He was my life, my future, I’m struggling to come to terms with the life that was planned and that it doesn’t exist anymore. I’m tryna find a way to find my new normal whatever that may be
I feel like I’m bouncing between anger and then sorrow. And so much confusion
So sorry for your loss , your emotions will be all over the place. Make sure your are eating and drinking even if you don’t feel like it
I’m eating but not out of pleasure, every meal is a forced one because I know I have too. But every meal I feel guilt. I question why am I allowed to sit here and eat and he isn’t. I’m constantly questioning
Just checking how you are today?
Keep with this site if you are struggling.
I’m about to have my tea and then watch footie. So excuse me if I don’t reply straight away if you post. It’s just you popped in my mind!
Sending a goodnight hug x