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Its been 7 months now and im crying more than ever i miss my beloved all the time . Life is not the same anymore i miss him with all my heart i feel so lost. Its like im drowning in a sea of grief.:cry:

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Duk45, so sorry you’re feeling like that. I don’t think time means much at all. From what I read, it could be 7 weeks (as I am), 7 months or 7 years and these dreadful feelings of loss and being lost can rush over us. I hope you’ve got good family and friends around you. Maybe try to meet up with someone tomorrow, someone you feel safe with, and keep posting on here. Hopefully there will be someone who can give you a bit more constructive advice to help you through xxx

So right about the feelings just pop up.
I was told that the grief is is like a huge lump that gradually isn’t quite so large but doesn’t go completely and I still feel wretched some days more than others and is 22 months now since. I always assumed it would take at least three years.

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Thank you for your message it means a lot❤️

Thank you ive got family and work colleagues who have been really good and supportive towards me . Grief just seems to come in waves one minute in ok the woosh it comes again im trying to cope the best i can with it.

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My husband sadly left me over 2 years ago and i have had a bad day crying today. Hopefully be better tomorrow. Just dont no when these days are going to take over. You just have to work through them, best you can. It upsets me and tears roll when i go out and see older couples holding hands. Something we use to do .
One day about a year ago i was on the bus sitting on a double seat on my own. A couple sat in the seat infront of me ,they looked like they were around 80 .(the same as my husband and i )He looked at her the way my husband would have looked at me and spoke to her. That was it !!! I sobbed , i didnt no what to do with my self, the tears just rolled. I could feel people looking, i got off the bus one stop before i needed, just to get away from everyone.
You just dont no when tears are going to take over. I used to try to fight it, but it didnt work. Now i think …i cant stop the tears , its because i love him ,i miss him, and i want him with me again , there is still such a void.
Time has taught me that if anyone sees me crying i dont let it bother me. We have no control over our emotions, and why worry about what other people think. We have all probably had a bad day in one way or another today.
Lets hope tomorrow is a little better. :broken_heart:

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Its been 7 months for me . I know how you feel i feel the same way. Sometimes you are fine the next you just want to cry. I miss my beloved so much .I’m sending you big hugs.:heart:

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