I have had too much sadness and now I’m alone.
I have had 2 miscarriages and a daughter pass away and my husband passed away from Covid.
My only immediate family is my youngest daughter and she is amazing but I can’t put my sadness or loneliness on her. There are only 2 of us out of a family that should be 6.
I have no idea of how to move on, how to find peace.
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Hello @Theresa11, I am so sorry for the losses you have endured. I can hear the sadness in your post Thank you for so bravely reaching out - the community is here for you and I hope you find it to be a support to you.
Loneliness after losing loved ones is something that a lot of our members experience and will relate to. Here are some threads written by members you may find helpful to read. You have asked how you can move on and find peace. I am sure someone will be along to offer their support, but you may find some of these resources helpful.
Have you ever considered bereavement counselling to help you through your grief? Sue Ryder offers an online bereavement counselling service. This is a free service and sessions are held via video chat so you can attend from home. There’s more information about this service here: sueryder.org/counselling.
You can also make an appointment with your GP and ask to be referred to counselling or other support services in your area.
If you think it could be helpful to meet up with others who have been bereaved, the AtALoss website lists local support available in your area.
Please do keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Seaneen
Hi Teresa I’m so sorry for your loss I know exactly how you feel I lost my first daughter Katie some yrs ago I was devastated. Then I lost my mum to. It’s almost a year on the 26 Jan since my Leah was 25:when she died with cancer of the breast then it moved to her liver my world fell apart and I’ve felt lonely and alone ever since I seem to be in my own world but I m hoping things will get a bit more bearable in the future I hope you will find some peace coming on here. Shellyanne XX 
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Hi Theresa I’m so sorry for the loss of your babies I can understand totally how you are feeling I’ve lost my 2 daughter s Katie and Leah. Katie was stillborn at 40 weeks I broke down and was a mess for a long time. Then I lost my mum. Which left me the same. Then a year ago on Thursday I lost my 25:yr old daughter Leah to breast and liver cancer I’m totally broken and my world has fallen apart I’m sending my love to you keep coming on here and talking to people who know what you are going through to help you take care shellyanne xx