Hi I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband and soulmate on 01/01/2026 to Motor Neurone Disease. He was diagnosed in July 2025. I am trying to keep busy but I know how hard it is and still can’t believe he has gone. I am arranging trips to the cinema and theatre. It does not stop the pain. But I try to have nice to look forward to. I hope you have family you can get support from.
My prompt is stuck so Love and Care message to clear my phone login. The room is full with love like a jolly Wake.
Unless they are embedded in sexism. Which is why I believe my husband is not alive. And why I am embroiled in lawsuits. And it seems you were aware and I have only understanding for you. It’s ok to object. It’s your life.
You’re so early in your grief. I’m four months into mine now. My partner died suddenly. I agree that people feel uncomfortable around us. All I feel is sadness and loss most of the time. I’ve tried not to isolate myself too much but it’s difficult to pretend things are okay when they’re not. I won’t say “I’m fine” just to make someone feel better. Getting out in the fresh air is a distraction, weather permitting. Even going to the shops for groceries passes the time. Be good to yourself. Try to do the mundane house things even when your motivation is zero. If you have family ask for help even if it’s just a daily phone call. I wish I could say you’ll feel better soon but that’s not going to happen soon.