I just can’t get out of bed today. My partner died on the 9th Dec. The sadness comes and goes but I just don’t want to do anything.
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Poor you. It’s so hard, isn’t it? What you are feeling is common to all of us on here, I think. You have had a shock, your world has tumbled down around you and everything feels alien and unreal.
This will pass, I promise. You will always be sad, of course you will, but you will manage to carve out a new life in tribute to your husband.
We wee married for 54 years and I adored him. When he died, I felt just like you, and occasionally I still do. I would give my right arm to have him back.
Hang in there. Your life has changed but you must live it for him now. I am pretty sure that’s what he would have wanted if he was anything like my husband.
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My thoughts are with you
Thank you. It’s so hard and seems to be getting worse not better. I go from feeling I am going to be ok and then it just hits me again that he is gone. I miss him so much he was everything to me. He died after a 4mth battle with Cancer. We did have some time to talk it through and say bye etc but I was not prepared for how much I would miss him. I have just wrote a list for tomorrow with the first thing on it is to get up!!
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Baby steps, take each day slowly have your list of things to do and do one thing on it each day or week. Im on month 6 and it has helped. Take care we are here to help each other.
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Hi @LouRuth im sorry you lost your partner it’s still early days it will take time good and bad days this is normal. I lost my mum 3 years ago I miss her dearly only starting to feel somewhat normal again big 
feel free to chat if you wish I’m here xx
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Hi just checking in to make sure you are doing ok and to say we are all here to help. Xx
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