Well Saturdays here,my daughter is out getting the food ime filling the fridge with wine,I had mentioned tonight to a couple of neighbours they asked if they could come as they had a couple of stories(just hope they are not gonna say milkman was a regular visitor🤣)must confess ime a bit nervous but the people are all really nice.
To all my friends (and you are)wish me luck for tonight and thank you.
Love and hugs RonXxxx
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I hope it goes just as you want it to.
I wish I lived closer, I would like to come and be your wing-man, or fall-guy, stooge, whatever.
I know I haven’t been invited, but I would gate-crash anyway.
Seriously, I will be thinking of you and sending strength.
Xx
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Good luck Ron. I’m sure it will all go grand
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You would never need an invite you would always be welcome,thank you for your good wishes means a lot.
Wingman eh very appropriate
Much love RonXxx
Thanks Roni.
Even though you all never knew her (or me really)it would be great to have you all here.
Love Ron.
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Hi Ron
Pardon the pun but we will all be there with you in spirit (in my case gin)
Thinking of you and hope it all goes well which I’m sure it will, your wife will be there giving you strength xx
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Thanks Lyn that’s much appreciated.
I hope you have a good evening.
Will be thinking of you.
Rose xx
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Thank you Rose.
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Well guys I am going to shut down now lots still to do,tidy up,clean bed linen for those staying over done,so I will say see you on the other side,have as good a night as possible everyone.
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Hi Ron11, wishing you well for tonight. I invited two sets of our couple friends around last Saturday night and although there were tears, it turned out to be a lovely evening so hopefully you’ll find the same. It was really hard to initially plan anything but they have been such amazing friends, and they love Andy as well so I wanted to be able to thank them in some way.
Good luck, will look out for your post tomorrow to see how it went xx
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Best of luck, Ron.
(very impressed that you even have a milkman! I wish…)
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Well that’s it all over,it went well everyone has now left(even the ones that were supposed to be staying overnight) lots of tears,memories and anecdotes,had to have a break and go sit on my own in the garden for a while,I want to really thank everyone for their kind messages of support it really helped.
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Glad it went ok. Xx
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So glad it went well.
Sleep well x
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Hopefully it did you some good and bought you comfort, connecting with everyone, even if it was just being able to talk about her to people and to reflect on the love and memories. Sometimes the tears are just waiting to be released, I call them my healing tears, better out than in. Hope today you find some peace x
Well done! So glad it went ok.
Morning everyone,it was a difficult day for me yesterday,a bit of aftershock and so on.
My daughter came round to help me tidy up after Saturday night,later sat having a coffee she asked if I still had her mums phone as she wanted to check her photo gallery in case we had missed any,so I retrieved it,plugged it in and waited for it to charge,five days after she passed I shut it down,closed wifi,cancelled her contract as I didn’t want any scam or nuisance calls.
My daughter fired it up went into her gallery dropped the phone said what the hell and cried.
In the gallery was four photos of our great granddaughter who was born two and a half weeks after she passed,and the download was shown as 28th May,now my daughter and I are pretty tech savvy but we have no idea how,it’s shook us both up.
Hello,
I am sorry that you had a difficult day yesterday.
I have found that dips sometimes follow good (or better) days.
I wonder if it is our subconscious finding it difficult to process lighter moods.
I don’t know.
I cannot explain the phone.
I hope that today is less difficult than yesterday 
Take care.
Sending a big hug,
Rose xx
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Thank you Rose,I have read you have had a couple of bad days too,I hope you are feeling better too,I saw your candles yesterday thank you,re-the phone I am now convinced she is still with me.
Many many hugs Ron.
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