Hello. My husband died suddenly before Christmas and I was not able to save him . He had a massive heart attack. Am so scared I can’t cope without him
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So sorry for your loss. You are bound to feel afraid when your whole world has been torn apart. Please look to family and friends and this forum for support
Copenhagen1, I am so sorry for your sudden loss. What a shock for you and how traumatic for you. Please reach out here and to anyone you trust to support you, family and friends and all else. I lost my husband before Christmas and we had eight months from his horrendous diagnosis. I was thinking your thoughts exactly earlier, I can’t cope without him, emotionally but he looked after me’ that sounds incredibly sexist and needy but he wanted to and I allowed for it. My fear is coping too without him
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So sorry for your loss.
hugs 
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This is absolutely what Paul was like . He used to walk on the outside of the pavement. He was a old fashioned man
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Thank you so much
Sending love x
I lost my husband to a sudden heart attack too, in May 2023 while at work.
I was not there by his side and it still hurts so much that I wasn’t able to save him or at least be there to hug and hold his hands.
Please take care x
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