Im sitting here crying with anxiety and fear. Lost my husband 14 months ago and my anxiety has got worse we were together for 54 years. I am nearly 80 and feel life is over for me. I have family who i see now and again but they dont understand the emotional problems. Due to go into hospital for a check up and worried here on my own. Dont know how to move forward and get better. Need a close friend but havent got one.
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Dear Debbie
I am so sorry to read this. Could any of your family take you?
Kate
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Thanks for your concern but living with family wouldnt work out. They have busy jobs and their own children. Dont want to leave my home but need company.
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I feel the same as I have no family or close friends. Lost my partner 14 months ago suddenly and get very anxious. I signed up for a Befriending Service locally and it has helped me a lot as I have someone to discuss anything that is worrying me or making me anxious. They find someone who they think you would get on with. You could try it - I know Age concern do one, it is worth a try.
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I lost my husband 8 wks we never had children so i. Totally on my own. I have family but they so far away and they all work and have children. My loneliness is horrid all i want is to be with my husband who i had an amazing 34 years with. Wish i cpuld hear his voice again.
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I see you live in North Wales. Whereabouts. Its 14 months since i lost Tony and made myself go out to groups etc. But now i ďont want to go out as much would rather be at home with my husband instead of trying to cover up my loss. Hope in time it will get better but feel lost and alone on my own. Take care - thinking of you, xx
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I live just outside prestatyn.
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I live near Chester. Not too far away.
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Just a train journey away.
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