I lost my wife suddenly almost 4 weeks ago. I don’t have children or family. I am extremely lonley as now service is over phone calls have stopped.
Where I struggle is my wife although would not harm a cat never wanted on as only was brought up with a dog. I was Brought up with both.
I feel guilty at looking at getting a rescue cat. How should I feel?
I need something to beat this lonleyness as it’s driving me crazy.
Nothing can replace my girl but I’m going mad and madder Evey day
Absolutely get a pet a cat or dog I have both and they are such a comfort and I have to get up in the morning and feed them and take the dog out and care for them
It gives me a reason to go on
I have 3 rescue cats I already had them when my partner passed away suddenly and I am so glad having no children they are are the only thing keeping me going
I need something to keep me company so have already applied to adopt. Someone to talk to
I am so pleased for you , an animal gives so much
I picked Ian’s ashes up today and brought him home
He is in the bedroom next to his guitar
I stilll can’t believe that the love of my life is in that box heart breaking
I’m waiting to be called to pick up.
I initially was going to have her ashes scattered at a donkey scantuary she loved to visit. But I’m having second thought about letter her go from me. I’m so excited understanding why people behave in a way you don’t understand until you experience this type of loss.
This forum helps keeping me busy. TV on but not watching. Can’t put anything on we watched together
I’m the same so many programmes we watched together that I can’t watch anymore
I can’t listen to the radio in case I hear songs that remind me of him
So I listen to talk radio
A good friend said to me that ‘grief is love with no place to go, so it escapes from your eyes and tears at your heart ‘
You need a little rescue cat to love
I couldn’t be without my dog
It might be worth waiting a while until the feelings calm down a bit. Cats are very sensitive to our moods so if your emotions are a bit unstable at the moment it might be hard for the cat to settle. Maybe try fostering to start with and see how it goes?
I am thinking of buying a dog as i don’t think i would’ve coped without hugging my cousins dog
Get a pet cat or dog it could be a great help to give you something else to think of and care for a pet would rely on you and give you a purpose to carry on.
Yes cat or dog - we are getting a puppy in 2 weeks and it is keeping me going after losing mum
I have just buried my father yesterday to Rest in peace and am missing him so much already… am feeling so sad
Hi,
I am so sorry for you loss, my husband died in early may after a short 3 week illness. we have a rescue dog, and he gets me out of the house and he now sleeps on my bed, as he snores (my hubby snored) so i now sleep better. animals are fantastic for comfort and become an important part of the family. hope you adoption goes well.
I got myself a rescue cat and called him Manuel.Having him has helped me so much through my grief.My husband and I talked about getting one but never did.So the fact that I’d just retired,and lockdown it was the perfect time.His a lovely cat and is good company.And I know my David would have loved him.So I would say get one..
Hi,
Jay did get a cat. He named her Alliy (after his wife) and posted a picture on the “Mornings are the Worst” post. He isn’t on here much these days, he’s trying to keep busy with work and has his medications now, hope he’s ok.