Sister passed (59) March 2024

Hello everyone,
I am here hoping it will stop my tears for just a few minutes, sister started with reflux, GERD, and tummy pains upper and left side, began to have acities (fluid on abdo tummy, Sister was felt so urrgggh.
Drained 3 times but fluid returned, found small nodules on chest lung, had kidney problems, with infection, had sepsis 2 times then finally a G.I. bleed which took sister as was too weak and seriously ill for any chemo or surgery.
Sister’s service was 4 days ago…worst, longest , saddest day of my life.

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Hello @Col11,

I’m so sorry to hear about your sister. Your loss is so recent and I can hear the sadness and longing for your sister in your posts. You are not alone.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share these links with you to help you with your grief.

You might already be familiar with our other Online Bereavement Support services, but if not, you can find out more about our Online Counselling service, our Grief Coach text support service, and our Grief Guide self-help tools by visiting the link.

I really hope you find the community to be a support to you too. Take care - keep reaching out,


Thank you for your kind words.