I’m so lost, so lonely. It’s been over 2 years now but it seems to be getting harder. I don’t see the point in anything. I just want to be with him again. My first & only love. How am I meant to live without him? We’ve been together since we were 17, but I lost him at just 44, way too soon.
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So sorry for your loss yes too soon I lost my husband 7 months ago and it is awful living with out him I was with him at 18 my true love and do joy know how I will get through life with out him was with him 46 yrs it is horrible thought going into a new year with out him sending hugs xx
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That’s how I feel Rose I don’t want to leave Jim in 2021
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Feeling so empty and lost so very painful for us all on here was not ready for this we had so much to look forward to rubbish xx
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Girls I know how you feel. We are all members of this club that we never wanted to join. I want my old life back. I never asked for this one. It all feels so unfair x
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Yes we are don’t like this club we all feel so different now and do not want this life do we people even treat you different some have just given you up it’s awful with out out loved one beside us just not right xx
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I know Rose. You know where I am if you need me. That’s what one of my so called friends quotes and she has stopped visiting and phoning. I feel let down and upset x
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I lost my husband 2 years ago and miss him more each day. He battled with cancer for 4 years. 26 years ago I lost my first husband to cancer and he was only 48. It’s so hard going through this grief a second time and now living completely alone. Life is so tough for anyone going through this loss
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So sorry to hear that you are going through this for second time once it bad enough it is such a painful journey and I feel we will never get to the end until with are with out loved ones who we miss so here very much I also have been let down by friends and family who I would have thought would be there for me they just don’t want to bother any more take care today all xx
So sorry for your loss Rose. Its a very different life without our loved ones. Life can never be the same. We somehow learn to live with it, but life is never the same. It cant be.
Yes it is horrible hard managing this different life been out all day come home and heartache all over again as they are not home there house empty no cuddles can not trek them how your day has been how do people get through it I am trying for the children and grandchildren but I’m heart broken no one to talk it through with I know so many are in the same boat xx
I feel the same rose. Life is empty without them. Little chats, cuddles and kisses and someone who makes life complete. I paint on my brave face, go for walk and then come home, take it off and cry. Awfully lonely x
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I’m the same it’s horrific so hard to imagine ever feeling ok when I have been with my husband all my life I feel was 18 life I feel has ended just don’t want to be with out him another week begins have to try best I can to get through each day been 8 months now seems like yesterday hope we came get some sleep xx
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Im a year on, still the same. Awful existence x
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