So unique

Grief is so unique to each person and each bond of loved ones we had . Why does it hurt so much i have to pretend it doesnt hurt so i dont have to keep going through it . Cant keep on with heartache so intense, need to have a break but feel i will forever be needing breaks from it . Its so so sad

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I’m sorry you’re in so much pain, @Marie17. You’re right, grief is so unique, but you are not alone with it. Thank you for reaching out - I’m just giving this a gentle bump for you.

Hi Marie 17

I understand how you feel, I lost my brother nearly a year ago now, it starts to get easier then bam it hits me again, sometimes I feel like I am the only one feeling like this but I do know that iam not.
I went away for a week thinking that when I came home I would feel better, but sadly not, we all grieve differently I know , I think it’s taking a long time for me as my brother died so suddenly and I had no time to say goodbye, I feel cheated out of that, I can only hope that’s he didn’t die in any pain.
I hope you can find some sort of comfort soon , but it’s not easy take care and be kind to yourself