Ive lost my son a month ago
cant seem to greive properly dont understand why
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Hello @Zobo04 ,
I can see that you’re new to the community. I hope you find it to be a support to you, but I am so sorry for the loss of your son that brings you here.
You say you are feeling like you can’t grieve. I wanted to share some sources of support that might help you right now.
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Child Bereavement UK support families with the loss of a child. They also support bereaved children. You can call their helpline on 0800 02 888 40.
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The Compassionate Friends support families who have lost a child of any age. They have a grief companion scheme where you can get 1-1 support from another bereaved parent. You can call them on 0345 123 2304.
Sue Ryder also has some resources which can help you cope with grief.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex
You may be in shock and grief is being delayed by it. It will happen at some point.
This could be because it’s such a shock.
Don’t overthink it, everyone is different, sending you a hug.
So you lost your son a month ago and can’t seen how to grieve you don’t understand. You are in new community and you find support to help with your grieve sorry for your loss of your son just brings you her you are in my prayers and thoughts 
You are grieving that is why you are looking at this site. There will be times when you are out and about and see someone about your sons age ,and think why did this happen to him. You are in shock at the moment , but that does not say you did not care. Take care of yourself​:pray: