My husband died in February (he was 43) and died in hospital 36 hours after surgery. I know the cause of death. Tomorrow, me and my mother in law are meeting with the surgeon that was caring for him, so I can understand what happened that morning. I need to know, and need to know that everything was done for him, but I’m also dreading it as will transport me back to that morning 16 weeks ago (not that its ever far from my thoughts)
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Thank you. I am a nurse, so I also like to believe that they did everything they could! And whilst I understood what the PM report says I still can’t come to terms with how things progressed so rapidly.
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My husband died very suddenly. He was supposedly being monitored by the GP at the time. But, I don’t think it would help to try and find blame so I steer well clear so I’m not tempted to go down that rabbit hole. Most people have the best of intentions so I leave it at that to try and find some peace.