I think anything that helps you is a plus, and we need to be open to everything as there’s very little help with losing someone close. I lived with mum 54 years of my life. So yes was very close and have a lot of memories, not only that but mum was a big part of my life. There’s so many things I need help with now in my life. Obviously Mum is the first person I would go to. I don’t know where I go these days, I’m alone in the flat I shared with mum, I’m not really getting a lot of interaction with people. I had to stop work because I was diagnosed with Myeloma Cancer back in June. Also trusting people can be dubious to say the least mum not here so I can’t talk to her. I inherited a lot of money and we both know how money can corrupt people or make them jealous of someone.
Sounds tough, you have had a lot of adjustments to make without support. Having an illness too will be doubly harder for you.
He also told me I need to get out more, that wasn’t right because I’m actually out all the time, can’t bear to be indoors!
This church meets every week so I will definitely go again. It was just £3 so no money to be made and everyone was welcoming.
I got chance to go to one on Sunday and I done spiritual video sessions on FB. So I’ve got a keen interest how you go on. I’ve not totally healed and Myeloma has pushed me more into that chasm of doom, I don’t know ? I think it’s made me miss my mum even more When I think about mum I feel the tears come even writing this. Going through my life now isn’t easy and it doesn’t really matter what people say Words are very empty and you don’t know who you can trust today, but I could always trust mum for words of wisdom.
i do my own studies being doing it for years i believe everyone’s past loved ones are around them
you have to open your channels to receive messages but if your loved ones think you need a sign they will try and show you like gust of air out of no where in closed room or that feeling of some one browsing your head etc or a song comes on radio or tv show what is relevent to you and loved one
I have always been sceptical, but my partner who I lost 12 weeks ago, after 16 years together, was a massive believer. We talked about it often but I’m very practical and need evidence and proof. I don’t say I definitely don’t believe, but just struggle with the whole concept I suppose.
Anyway, in the last 12 weeks I haven’t had any signs at all and I have thought that if it was true she would have sent me something.
Then last Sunday, there were 4 songs on the radio all of which were special to us (I choose a station now where that shouldn’t happen, it’s too upsetting) My grown children named a star after my partner for me and the random choice was Casseopiea, which was the constellation my partner always pointed out when we were star gazing (the wonky W) and then when I went home from my daughters that evening, my partners bedside lamp was turned on!
I told a friend of all this and she laughed and said Lisa knows you’re not sure, she is poking you on the side of the head saying I’M HERE
I think she was and it makes me happy, I so want to believe she hasn’t left me
Hi there, i am a bereaved grandmother who lost her 24 year old grandson just over a year and a half ago. I have always had a curiosity about spirituality and have never really believed that when we die everything stops.
I have had some wierd experiences with large pictures falling off walls, electronics going crazy and stuff just being in strange places. I thought i might dream about my beautiful grandson but it too 28 months before he came to me in a dream. My daughters car kept playing the song that was played at his funeral without being put on. So now i have chosen to believe as i think to myself, if when i die there is nothing then so be it. But if i can feel some relief from grief thinking my grandson will be there to hold my hand and take me to wherever it is im going then thats perfect.
All we can hope for is 1 day we are all united with our loved ones. I do think that’s a real possibility. It sounds like you had a lot of signs to be just coincidence.