Step mother after dads death

This is a hard one but i need the support with this and want to share incase anyone else feels or had similar situation.

I lost my amazing dad in april and miss him terribly he was my best friend.

My parents divorced as a child and i lived with my dad most of my life . We was very close.

Sadly my relathionship with his wife was never great i always felt intimadated and threatened but respected my dad loved her.

Since his passing she has not wanted to communicate with any of his family . Has not let us into his home to collect some precious items of his. Has not contacted my fathers grandchildren or asked how anybody is. She has not made any decisions with us to do with dads home or his items we feel very isolated and hurt.

I agree we should not communicate.

This whole situation has been heartbreaking and making our grief incredibly complex.

I know and appreciate we all grieve different but this is heartbreaking .

Hello @Gerrythegiraffe ,

I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.

Take good care,
Alex