Still miss him so much

Losing a partner
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My husband died very suddenly 5 and a half years ago. It was his birthday today but i still miss him so much every single day. Does anyone feel the same or able to offer advice. Thanks xx

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I can’t give much advice as it’s only just 6 months for me, but I believe you will always feel sad for your loss and especially around those special dates like birthdays.
Be kind to yourself and maybe see if there are people around who can support you on these difficult days.
I’m so sorry you lost your husband and have to be dealing with all this grief.
It is so hard isn’t it.
Be kind to yourself and don’t expect too much. Just a day at a time
Sending a big hug and some strength xx

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I am so sorry for how you are feeling, I am two and a half years down the line and most days its unbearable. The loss is so great. Will it ever get better ??..i just dont no.
Wish someone had a magic wand and could gives us all the answers we each need. Big Hug.

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Hi Keswick,
I’m sorry not to be able to offer any advice to you as I am coming up to 6 years in December since I lost my husband Pete and I feel the same as you. Birthdays are still hard to bear as are anniversaries and the dreaded christmas’s. I think a love that was very deep is very hard to bear, the price we pay for love…
Thinking of you today. Love Jenny

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Hi everyone
Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. It is such a comfort to know you’re not alone. I think it’s only people who very sadly find themselves in this community we don’t want to be in who truly understand the pain and loneliness of losing a partner who is a soul mate. I’m so sorry for each of your devastating losses and wish you weren’t in this position but it is lovely to hear your support and kindness. Love and hugs to you all, thanks xx

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