Still miss him terribly

My husband passed away on May 3,2024
We were waiting for a heart transplant
He was only 62 …, we did not go there to die before he even got a heart ….they put a new heart pump in and it shocked his liver and heart …, he recovered after the surgery and was never the same
They said if he couldn’t get up and walk he wouldn’t qualify for a heart transplant
So he finally passed after a month…I had moved to Houston in February to be with him got an apartment for his nearby so after transplant we’d be ready and he didn’t make it …,. It’s still a shock

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Sorry for your loss xx

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Thinking of you sorry for your loss x

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So very sorry. Thinking of you x

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So very sorry for your loss, such a shock and still so new for you. Like me and my late husband we were expecting things to go well and the opposite happened. My husband was so totally upbeat about the procedure ( at least to me although I do wonder now if he truly felt that way) that i never worried too much about the op I was more concerned about how I’d look after him properly afterwards. It’s so very recent for you and believe me it will start to feel less raw as time goes on. Try to be kind to yourself if you possibly can, I know it’s difficult but you will get through it as so many others on this site will tell you. The heartache won’t go away but you’ll find a way to live with it. Take care.

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So sorry :heart:

The pain just doesn’t go away
I miss him soooo much :broken_heart:

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That is so true its been 8 months and I feel so alone even when I’m with other people
Thinking off you take care x

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