I feel empty, I lost my mother (October) my grandmother (July) and my great aunty (august) all in the space of 10 months.
I’m struggling to re find the good in the world, I feel so empty and at a loss as to how to handle so much grief all at once
How can I begin to heal from one when I have 3 at once, it seems cruel and unfair and I know I sound like a child I just don’t know what I’m supposed to do now xx
I’m so sorry for your loss. So many loved ones in such a short space of time.
You have to believe that they are all together now. What would they say to you if they saw you doubting yourself?
Im guessing they’d tell you that they loved you from the day you were born and always will. They were your rocks and they raised you to be who you are today. They would want the very best for you as they always did.
You wont forget them as they live on in your heart, but equally you cannot forget yourself.
How lucky were you to have three ladies in your life that loved you as much as they did.
Remember that and you’ll realise that you must be something special.
Every day, things will get a little clearer and you will get through this.
You try to be what they would want but my late husband said you can only do your best. That is what his grandmother told him. So he passed it to his son who passed it to his kids.
This trying to do your best. And it is these strengths they had.