Really struggling with the New Year, following my mother’s death in November. How’s everybody else coping?
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Honestly, I’m not. My mum also died in November.
The best way to describe it is that i’m existing not living.
Somedays i dont have the will to do anything other than sleep. Other days i can look after myself better. I’m trying, but its rough.
Just trying to take it one day at a time at the moment.
Do you have anyone for support?
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Hi there. Yes, I feel exactly the same. Just about making it through the days… You’re right… One day at a time is pretty much the only way… Even one hour at a time… I do have people in my life, but I’m pretty much alone in my grief journey, as they are in theirs. Hope things get less difficult for you soon.
I wish I had someone to lean on like people in my life that understand .but to me the fact is our parents are our grounding in life and I feel very very ungrounded despite trying to live each day and take care of me .I’m a big girl .I just want my mum and dad back
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I’m so sorry that you’re having to deal with this. No matter what age we are, losing our parents is really really awful.