Struggling with losing partner

Struggling emotionally and mentally, physically with the loss of my partner

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I understand how you feel, your not alone on here

I don’t have any advice. This feeling is unbearable. I just wanted to message and say you are seen and not alone. It’s so so difficult trying to grieve especially while also trying to be a parent. I am sorry for your loss.

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I understand how you are feeling, every day is so hard, just to carry on is a battle, it seems unreal and scary that you have to live without your loved one.
I find it difficult to cope with my loss, and the fact that I couldn’t save my beautiful husband, so many “if onlys”, I still cannot believe it is true that he has gone, and pray every day that it is a nightmare that I will awake from.

I send you my love and condolences xx

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As people have said, youre not alone.
Trying to make sense ,if you ever can, is so difficult along with the coming home to an empty house,dealing with house maintenance on your own,theres a million and one things i miss about him.
We’re all amongst people who understand here and are going through or have been through this horrendously awful journey.

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I sympathise with you and understand totally. I lost my darling John only 5 days ago and it is absolute agony.
Strangely yesterday I wasn’t too bad and felt less tearful but today it’s hit like a ton of bricks. I feel inconsolable even though I have a good network of family and friends but theres only John that can help but he’s not here. I only knew him 2 plus years but we were inseparable from the start…
True love in my opinion only comes round once and I intend to try n revel in the fact I loved and was loved.
I’m lucky I have hundreds of texts between us that he saved so I’m reading those whilst sat in his dressing gown he kept at my house…
We will get through this but it’s going to be the toughest road…

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