Jan 25th of this year my son collapsed at home paramedics and doctors worked on Ian for an hour but he wouldnt wake up. Ian suffered a broken arm due to a fall from a ladder had two operations so two hospital stays after discharge he was fine then that fateful morning he was gone a post mortem revealed DVT and pulmonary embolism. I miss him so much he never left home and had some learning difficulties so i was his carer his mum and my best friend. I cannot sleep constantly bursting into tears i have people around but i cant talk without crying i get angry all the time im really struggling without him here in my life
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Hi Lisa. How you are feeling is really normal i lost my son in December he was 28 and every time I hear of another son of daughter dying my heart breaks Jonathan was my only one and my best friend as well as would laugh n cry together and I miss him everyday you are so brave coming on here it was the best thing I did as well as counselling i hope you are getting help as well it helps so much knowing your not alone we really do understand it’s a site or group you never want to be part of but we are and they are always ready to listen n help in anyway take care Linda x
Hi Lisa
I’m so sorry you have lost your son Ian , I lost my beautiful daughter and best friend in dec last year , everyday is a struggle , I still cry everyday I miss her so much , all I can say is take one day at a time and if that is too much one hour or one minute at a time that’s all we can do , we live in a cruel world and it is so unfair that we have lost our children
Sending a big hug
Ali