Struggling with the loss of my dad

My 87 year old dad passed away suddenly at the end of November and I’m feeling really sad today :pleading_face:

Ik how you feel today some days are worse than others. My dad died on the 23rd October and I still can’t cope. I’m only 19 feel cheated on so many years with him people say it gets easier feels like it gets worse everyday x

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Grief is such a roller coaster of emotions, unfortunately mainly lows :frowning: For me, I try to keep busy and distracted, only allowing the sadness in in limited amounts. I know my mom and dad wouldn’t want me to be as continually and overwhelmingly sad and upset as I have been. I often close my eyes and take myself back to happy childhood memories.

One day at a time. I hope you too can eventually start to find some peace in your memories of happier times.

Hi , i lost my dad on Christmas day 2024 . I feel angry, sad, lost, broken . I was not there at the end and didnt go to his ashes memorial/wake. I dont know how to let go of him or if i even want to .