My wife died of cancer , I had to look after her at home , I can’t get how awful it was out of my head , it’s there constantly even when I’m with others , I just can’t cope with it in my head much longer, outwardly I probably seem ok and no one really knows and I don’t want to tell them as they won’t understand . I cry every day


Croz I am so sorry for your loss. You are not alone. The folk on here are so understanding. We’re all in this terrible club together. Please share if it will help x


Dear Croz. I am so sorry that you have lost your dear wife to cancer. It truly is a devastating illness and leaves devastating memories in its path. All of the stuff out there that suggests we will be supported is not always true. My husband was taken by cancer 4 months ago and I had next to no help in his care, it’s tough and cruel. It is really difficult to process but you will find support here when you need it so keep reaching out.
Sending you my best wishes

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