Struggling today, had to arrange the funeral for my son who only just got engaged.
So many questions!!
His fiancee was amazing bless her heart but im so hurting still and so many visitors which are tiring me out.
Wish they would all go.
Hugs, we had our funeral last week, i couldn’t engage in most of the process, his dad organised it all, though I choose coffin and location of burial.
I ignored most of the messages to see me the first two weeks, so only had 3 visitors who turned up uninvited, though some got the hint that after 15 mins they needed to go as they all seemed to want to chat and distract me. 4 weeks in now though I do feel isolated as no one checking in with me any more.
Keep talking to us here I feel it helps.
Thanks Taff, here for you if u need a chat. X
We are checking in with you and here to help each other. I find it odd when something so awful happens people amazingly get your mobile number and start ringing or messaging and saying ridiculous things. I too feel isolated but I think is largely due to me being anti social, can’t be bothered and find living in a village hard as so many gossip and get it all so wrong, so when you confront them they don’t like it, well tough s**t is all I can. Oh sorry I’m having a rant, didn’t intend to, take care xx
Think it doesn’t help i ran a squirrel scout group, and message tonight theyve got new leaders, i said last week whike im not up to the meetings but happy to program plan, feel like im not needed anymore