I lost my partner 12 weeks ago very sudden and unexpected.
I miss him so much and can’t believe he has gone. I never got to say goodbye and the pain hurts so much.
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I lost my wife suddenly 12 months ago,no time to say goodbye, nothing, not even a final glance.
She would not have coped with a long illness or hospital stay so the only way I can see any good in this is that she did not suffer, you need to see that too, it’s hard for us left behind, there are many things, I’m sure that we wanted to say to them but we need to accept the fact that to say those things to them they would have had to have had a drawn out death and suffered.
I am sorry for your loss and I hope you can understand that the person you lost is ok now,is not in any pain and has gone, hard to accept, I know, we need to try to think of ourselves now and live for the people we have lost.
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Yes it is very hard for us that are left behind ! Its bloody torture ! So sad today … 14 months into this and i still feel so alone without him. I miss him being here so much. I miss having a husband, someone to love 
its not fair … i don’t wanna live like this for the rest of the life that i have got left
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Hi@Mave
I lost my partner totally unexpectedly on 3rd December . I feel totally lost and wonder when I will feel I can accept the loss. Take care x
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I lost my husband in Jan and I am so lonely. I can’t believe I won’t see him again and I know there is nothing for me in the future. I just hate being on my own
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No youre not alone… its very hard without the man you love … we just have to go forward with baby steps and see what life brings us. Try to just do everything you can in your power to make yourself happy and see what follows … things do improve but its a slow process you know with many ups and downs on this rollercoaster ride xx
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Mave 1 sorry for your loss , we all no this feeling only so well , personally I have never felt so alone in my life so I can only send you my 
And big hugs, music is my comfort. And I have found my only place to relax in my own thoughts. I lost my Christine in October 2023 and still think of her every single minute of every single day , all I can say is keep going forward, it has to get better, take care and luck after your self x
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