Struggling

Losing a partner
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I lost my partner of 20 years 2 years ago, feel like something in me died when she passed i took care of her for 12 months of cancer diagnosis we went through complete hell on earth it was so difficult to cope i done my best im 49 my partner Kazzy was 18 years older then me, she was my life and soul mate :broken_heart:

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I know exactly what you mean. I was my wife’s carer for her last two years: she was bedbound and it was hell on earth for both of us.
I dont think its recognised how hard caring for a partner is. My wife was so ill that i couldnt sleep and kept checking on her. We would have been married for 40 years this year and i feel cut in half.
We were all lucky to have met our soul-mates and been with them till their time came.
I feel like ive been through the mill and it shows, but life has to go on.

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Sorry to hear that it certainly is a terrible pain to go through is it not, for all involved carer and partners i hope things get better :pray:t2: for you

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Hi @Walkoflife

I’m sorry for you loss :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

I truly understand how you are feeling.
Words can’t describe how the heartache hurts and the constant longing for them to be with us.

Sending hugs xx

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Thanxs same to you have a lovely blessed positive day :sparkles:

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@Walkoflife

Thank you, I’ll try for one of them days tomorrow :blush::crossed_fingers: x

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Lets hope :pray:t2: we all have a lovely blessed positive day tomorrow im sorry for your loss

Big hugs x

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@Walkoflife

Thank you. Hope you do as well.

I think tomorrow will be a better day as got things planned in the morning and I am decorating my hallway. I always have a better day if I have been out and about or achieved something :blush:

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Same to you.

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