Struggling

Feel like my mental health is getting worse every day is getting tougher. Feel like not getting a break lost dad just over 4 years ago .lost aunt 5 years ago mum may have dementia aunty really ill and wife had misscarriage last year am mentally exhausted

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It’s no wonder you’re exhausted, @Keegsy01. It sounds like you’re coping with so much. Thank you for sharing how you’re feeling with us.

Are you getting any support from your GP? If not, it might be a good idea to make an appointment and let them know how you’re feeling.

If you feel like you need support right now:

  • You can call 111 and choose the mental health option to speak to a trained mental health professional (England, Scotland and Wales only)

  • Samaritans are available 24/7 to talk about anything that you are worried about in confidence. You can call them on 116 123.

  • Shout are contactable by text, 24/7. You can text REMEDY to 85258 and talk to them about anything.

  • You can also find your local NHS urgent mental health helpline.

Sue Ryder offers an online bereavement counselling service. This is a free service and sessions are held via video chat so you can attend from home. There’s more information about this service here: sueryder.org/counselling.

I’m so sorry to hear about your mum. If you think it could be helpful to chat to someone, Alzheimer’s Society offer advice and support to people affected by dementia. You can call their Dementia Support Line free on 0333 150 3456.

You deserve care and support so please, @Keegsy01, get in touch with one of these services.

Take care,
Seaneen

Hi a keep in touch with doctors on sertaline highest dose but feel lile am just getter bad news after bad news

I am so sorry you don’t seem to get a break especially when you have reached the point of exhaustion. I can totally relate and the last month has been particularly bad for me. It has made me ill because I’m mentally exhausted so I am forcing myself to slow down and do things I enjoy such as being out in my garden even just for 10 minutes or so at a time. I really wish you some respite and support for yourself.

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Thank you and same to yourself am scared to enjoy anything as feel as when a do bang more bad news

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Still dont feel getting anywhere where with my mind getting lots of low days and sometimes emotional. Cant be bothered doing much and even making dinner is effort

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Yes get days like that. Having COVID vaccine made me more washed out.
Was in Saturday. Really puffing trying to mow the grass the other day.
Caring is exhausting. I find that. Think if some fairy godmother waving her magic want and making it all go away for a bit