My brother died suddenly of a cardiac arrest two days ago. In the last 16 years I’ve lost my mom and my dad and now my brother. He meant the world to me and knowing he was all alone when he died is weighing so heavily on me. He managed to call the ambulance himself but they could not revive him. I feel like I never really dealt with the death of my parents and I don’t know how I’m going to cope with losing my brother. I feel so lost. I wish I could have been with him in his final moments so he knew he wasn’t alone. I can’t see a way through my grief.
Hello @AJ81,
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about your brother and your parents. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex