husband died suddenly out of blue in 29/12/2025.happened at home.Post morten showed heart rupture and to my horror undiagnosed end stage pancreatic cancer.Reeling,shocked and heartbroken. have 2 adult sons with aspergers living at home. one found him and we performed CRP but he had gone.feel as if in a foreign world. our middle son was stillborn and my mum died in an accident but this !!!unbelievably painful
I am so sorry for your loss. It is so sad and hard to even make sense of. I lost R 6 months ago today. I am totally heartbroken and don’t know how to navigate the future. This site has been a great support for me and many others. Sending hugs x
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The shock after a sudden unexpected death is all consuming. It is also the trauma of it, for yourself and your sons. I lost my husband 6 months ago,I sat and watched the paramedics working on him for nearly an hour, it was like a horrific dream.
My heart goes out to you , you’ve experienced painful loses and the sense of living in a world so unfamiliar and alien is difficult to navigate. Just keep talking and try to comfort one another. X
Hi Meg
So sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your beloved husband. Pain can be unbearable I know I just lost my husband on the 13/01/25. My head is still all over the place, but receiving very comforting messages from people on this forum with similar pain. Take care and sending you lots of hugs xx
so sorry for all your losses
it is awful. just registered his death and did arranging cremation on monday.feel like a robot .
Meg Went shopping for the first time since Monday 13 and felt terrible as I always get my husband his favourite cakes and treats when I do my weekly shopping. It was very painful. Will pick up the certificate on Wed next week so I can arrange his cremation. My heart goes out to all the losses and sending virtual hugs to everyone.