Hi. I am new here. I found my brother gone in his bed four weeks ago. I feel stunned. The coroner told me today on his cremation day that it was sudden unexpected death. So I am struggling to understand this. He was only 53.
I also lost my handsome hubby five years ago during lock down, so I understand how grief ravages us. Just needed to reach out so hi and love to all who are also struggling
Hello @tilly.tantrum16,
Thank you for reaching out 
I’m so sorry to hear about your brother. The sudden death of someone close to us can often leave us with intense feelings to cope with as we grieve. And we might also be coping with the trauma and shock of it, which can make it all the more difficult.
Many of our members have experienced a sudden death and will understand some of what you’re going through. You can read some recent conversations about this by clicking this link. You might find some comfort and support in knowing you are not alone.
You may also find our info page on coping with sudden deaths helpful to read.
Please be gentle with yourself and keep reaching out,
Seaneen
Hi Seaneen
Thank you for replying. I will read the links that you sent to me.
Had another bad day today. Feel so disconnected today….
Tilly