Sunday again…used to love Sunday…used to be our fave day of the week…she died on a Sunday…now I hate Sunday…18 months into this surreal nightmare…and however much I try…and I have…I just can’t get my head around all of this…just can’t …never will…never…
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Time time time yes life is surreal and Sunday is always the pits especially for you, maybe you need to talk to someone,? it does help I’m not sure how but it does , have you accessed any bereavement counselling?
meanwhile its ok to feel whatever you are feeling for however long it takes there is no formula, just kindness to yourself.
Keep posting there are good people on here
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…thank you for your words…I have talked…18 counselling sessions…2 wonderful grown up kids…2 fab grand kids…fantastic lifelong friends …I’m not lacking support …but reality is…the most important bit has gone…I know that…got to deal with it…
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like i said keep posting here is the place to voice your feelings dealing with it so hard.
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Try this UnityMan. Save lots of your weekday jobs up for Sunday, shopping, cleaning, washing anything. Change your usual Sunday routine, then it might not seem so bad.
Might be worth a try. 
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Good idea !!! Xxx
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