I lost my husband 2 weeks ago, it has been shocking it was so quick, he had been in hospital with pneumonia for 2 weeks but the could not seem to be able to find the right antibiotics, he was slowly deteriorating each time I visited and on the last day he bacame very ill and they had to ask him if he would go on a ventilator he really did not have a choice, I keep reliving this moment in time as I promised him he would be okay and I would see him when he woke up but this never happened and he died in intensive care, I can’t stop reliving this moment in time and how scared he was. My mind wont switch off . This all happened on a Sunday so I relive it every week.
I am so sorry Lincoln. My husband died in intensive care too. He had a cardiac arrest at home in bed next to me. I thought he was going to make it, but sadly he didn’t. It is such a shock and leaves you reeling.
I am glad you found us, though sorry that you had to. It is a place where you will find support and understanding.
Wishing you love and strength. Xx
Hi Lincoln,
So sorry for your loss. It is early days and you will run lots of things through your mind and as most of us who are further down the line will tell you it doesn’t get any easier but you do learn to cope to a different life. Please don’t feel guilty about his passing. It was not in your control and in time you will see that. Take care of yourself and try to get some rest. We are all here to help and listen x