I recently lost a good friend of mine from university in a horrific accident that should not have happened.
His girlfriend is also my best friend I am really struggling to find a way to cope with my own grief as well as supporting her through the unimaginable amount of pain she must be going through. He was the love of her life and her whole future was him and its just so hard to accept the reality that he won’t be coming back.
I also feel like I am coping with her grief by myself and I don’t know how to offload it in a different way that will not affect my best friend.
We are all in our early twenties and probably will be the first funeral for most of our friends and I can’t predict how everyone will react.
His funeral will be this coming Monday and I just have no idea how to support her and cope with it myself if anyone has any advice it would be much appreciated.