Terminal cancer

How do u help close family member after death

Thanku for that helps a lot

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Be guided by them. Grief changes hour by hour, day by day and therefore a bereaved persons needs change. Just offer to be there if they need a chat or someone to listen to them

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Thank you very much very helpful. X

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I agree. Just being there when they need you and offering to do the practical things like washing,cooking etc. My sister just cooked and sometimes fed half the relatives in the hospice but I didn’t realise until she stopped a week after my husband died. One of my Bills friends just sent me a row of kisses every day he was ill and every week after he died it was so sweet of him because I knew he was there and if I chose to message back fine but if I didn’t that was fine too. It’s the wee things that make a difference.
Shona x

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