After just my wife’s funeral, i am struggling to accept that paula has gone and cant see anyway out, im struggling to find the words to write now of how i feel
I cant accept when people say time heals so none of that will help please
I am now seeing a suicide therapist which is helping but i still want to be with my wife.
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@Rayb I’m so sorry for your loss. My advice is limited as it’s only been 8 weeks since I lost my amazing husband at the age of 56. All I can say is it’s very early days, just take one day at a time and use this forum as much as you need to, there are so many people on here who will help, you are not alone
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This is the first message I have the guts to send
.I feel you’re pain, my wife’s funeral was nearly 2 weeks ago - I feel numb and have shut everything off around me.
Everything feels pointless without her.
We lived together, worked together now I’m in this black hole - I have friends and family but all I want is her.
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Im so sorry for your loss, its been 12 weeks since I lost my beloved husband to cancer, we had 4 weeks together from the diagnosis.
I miss him everyday and struggling without him, he was my life and my soul mate, we had just celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary 3 days before we found out.
Now im not living im just existing waiting for the day where I can be with him again
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Rayb
I myself had a traumatic time lost my sister then my wife four days later in September.
The first month was hell but when the grief fog started to clear i found this site and it has helped me me get back on track. When ever i was feeling down i came on here and being able to share with how i was feeling others gave me the strength.
Take care and try to keep open thoughts.
