The loss of my wonderful husband, soulmate and best friend

I lost my wonderful husband nearly 9 months ago. Due to a terrible illness cystic fibrosis we had a hard fight to keep him well all of the time. The last four years of his life were restricted due to him being on oxygen and waiting for double lungs - the call never came and he was taken so suddenly aged 50 and days after we celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary. Too sudden to talk or say our goodbyes. He has been my world since I was 15 years old and I am truly heartbroken. I miss our life terribly and will never understand why he did not get the gift of life. I have cried every day.

hi Heather
very sorry for the loss of your husband.so many people on this site are going through the same tragic loss of a partner.sadly the sense of loss and crying are part and parcel for most of us,we all look for ways to hopefully help us cope with the loss from day to day.there are lots of very kind and considerate people who will not doubt offer you words of comfort and support.hope you are getting some support from your family and friends
regards ian

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Thankyou. I’ve tried to manage this the best I can and do have some good family and friends but I know it’s tough for them to see me crying all the time. I am sending a hug to you for whatever brought you to this page too x

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