Sorry Me2 but you are losing me a bit and I can’t see the point anymore. So I am going to take a leaf out of my beloved husband book. He hated confrontation and when in conversation with people he didn’t know that well he would always agree with them. When I asked him later why he had agreed when I knew this wasn’t really his point of view he would always say. “I can’t be bothered, let them have their point of view, I just agree with them for a quiet life” So I will do the same, he will be proud of me as I can argue for England if I so wish. But I have never said that people can’t have different struggles, suggest you read my previous post, I am speaking for myself. I didn’t start this post!!! Have a good day all of you, I am off to meet family for a day out. Pat xxx