The Way We Were

Losing a partner
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I’m slowly trying to watch videos of my wife and see them as happy memories rather than just crying.

This one was a holiday we had in Southsea, in 1970, along with a couple of friends.

The audio is a song I wrote back in 2016 that has lyrics, particularly in the first two verses, that are more significant now that Jackie has gone. It was a live rehearsal with me singing and playing guitar, so please forgive any mistakes.

Whenever I see you, while I hear you
When I touch you, you’re not there
Times we used to, the place we longed for
The touch that meant so, the way we were

Time of healing, days a longing,
Heart was grieving, you’re not there
Times we used to, the place we longed for
The touch that meant so, the way we were

Penny Blacks and jumping jacks
Bags we took to school
Rag and bone, horse and cart
*Nothing ‘oh so cool’ *

It’s my own fault, done on impulse
Could have gone further, stayed at school
Times we used to, the place we longed for
The touch that meant so, the way we were

Wherever I see you, while I hear you
When I touch you, please be there
Times we used to, the place we longed for
The touch that meant so, the way we were

Penny Blacks and jumping jacks
Bags we took to school
Rag and bone, horse and cart
Nothing ‘oh so cool’

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Hi Johnr. That’s a beautiful song and a loving tribute to Jackie. My wife Sue passed in 2007, aged only 37, and I wish I had some movies with her in them as well as the talent you have to write such a lovely song. I’m so sorry that you’re on the same heartbreaking journey but also admire you being able to create such a heartfelt tribute. Best wishes, Colin.

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Thanks Colin. Sorry for your loss of Sue. Even though it’s been a long time for you compared to me, it’s still as devastating and heartbreaking for you as it is for me.

We were lucky in that Jackie’s dad had one of those 8 mm silent movies. We had them converted to digital and over the I’ve been slowly putting music to them.

I put the same song to a movie of our wedding in 1967 after Jackie had passed. Her ashes are interred in the Welsh church where we got married

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Forgot the link

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What amazing lyrics and how appropriate. I am sure she wast so swept away by these fabulous words. Not only are you a very sweet person so are extremely talented and how proud she was of you

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Thanks.
I hope she was

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Is it you singing John?

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I’m afraid so.
I wrote it intending that our singer would do the vocals. He was travelling from Spain so a bit late for rehearsal.
When he arrived, he said I should do it, so I have. I’m playing the guitar solos as well

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That’s great John, you can sing :smile:

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I sing the demos of my songs, then if band likes them, the singer will learn it

Here’s another one

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