Hello.
Has anyone noticed how when you lose someone that time goes fast and yet it feels like the day you lost someone it’s like it happened today.?
I’ve had that feeling like time is fleeting by so much so I only lost my mum today not 8 years ago.
8 years has passed in the blink of an eye it is horrible waking up each day knowing I’ll never see my mum while I’m still here. Roll on the day I do see my mum. It can’t come quick enough
Hi Steven. I reckon that we all feel like that in the early days, weeks and even a few months after a death of someone we love.
However, grief is something we travel through until we come out the other side. It took me 18 months.
It seems you have got lost in your journey, and are stuck somewhere. 8 years is far too long.
Have you looked at some sort of therapy, to guide you, so you can move forward.?
I wish you well.
Hi Tykey
Thank you for your kind reply
I am lost in my journey of grief. I have so many unanswered questions about what really happened to my mum and as you can imagine nearly of 8 years since I lost my mum is torturous for me personally not knowing the answers
Yeah I have had counselling to no avail but I worked out im best dealing with my own grief by myself. I’ve learned not to let it consume me to much like it does I’ve got pretty good at it
I’m even working on my own relationship with my elderly dad before it’s too late. We’ve never really got on but my mum leaving us has made me realise that not only is he all I’ve got. There is a song called living years it’s about my dad and I. I need him writing this is to much for me I have to face what’s coming
Isn’t it strange how losing your mum can make you realise is what’s more important in life