I’d say it’s a terribly scary time and so terribly sad.
I remember when the consultants told us there was nothing more they could do for my Mum.
The next stage was to move her to a hospice I remember holding my breath waiting for a space at a hospice thinking oh no Mums going to die now.
I’d say visiting them is so important being near them being ur self just talk like u did before. I found it very very hard. My Mums food had to be taken away one of her conditions for moving to the hospice because she couldn’t digest her food so she couldn’t eat anything and I remember her being so weak she didn’t want to talk back to me she just wanted me to sit with her and hold her hand.
I remember how sad she was when people didn’t visit.
Every Saturday as weak as she was she would get ready to see her family but no one would come.
So I’d say please visit even though its hard
Think how hard it is for them.
They r dying they need us more
Big hugs to you all xxxx