Thankyou for your kind msg, I think you spk for us all, I was a mum, and I have a mum, called my mum today to wish her happy mothers day, and to see if she liked her flowers, she did, we talked for a while, I had to bring up my daughter in the conversation, I was a mum, my nieces msg me this morning so lovely and kind, i adore them, nothing from my sister, I was a mum, im still a person, i had a daughter, I was a mum, im not invisible, she was my daughter, I was her mum. love to you all x