So today i felt ok although will admit diazepam is helping with my feelings but then my late partners son has been messaging me and my partners sister in regards to funeral. He was dent the link so he can watch the service and then decides him and his sister are the next if kin and they should have been notified,what a joke,if he had sent as many texts to his dad prior then he would still be here but they both decided to ignore their dads plea for contact, remembering they are grown adults,so full on low sobbing night for me, hope your all dping as well as can be expected x
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Aww mismoo. They always make me laugh the way they come out of the woodwork when something happens. Why didn’t they make a effirt when he was alive its far to late now to nske claims. Hugs Jo xxx
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Absolutely its destroyed him not speaking to them he sent his numerous whatsapp messages and only thing he ever asked for was an up to date photo of them both and they couldnt even do that or reply to messages, this sounds harsh and its not out of grief because his sister agrees they are partly to do with what he done and im so angry at how they have the brass neck to decide they are next of kin xx
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I understand what youvare saying selfish people always blame someone else. But if its any consolation remember he knew he was loved by you. And they have to live eiyh what they did and what the outcome was xxc
Exactly, we both spoke prior about what he wanted should he go before me and it was decided cremarion and then whe i die his ashes are put in with me before im buried in the plot where my late husband is, i also discussed it with his sister and she agreed and my kids no what the plan is also and how when im buried they ha e to get a plaque with his name on so he is not un named xx
Bless so you do it as you both planned his kids have no claims. If they dont like it then its tuff they should have been therecwhen he needed them xxx
Thank you its nice someone else can see what they are like. I wish that his son had messaged him even just now and again a simple hi dad would have made my partners day but no and here we are dealing with this insane pain xx
Bless you take a deep breath and know you was the one who was there and helped him lo ed him for what he was. Xxx
Thank you xx