Two months since Mum passed

Losing a parent
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Hello everyone
Sending love & thoughts .
Has been two months since Mum passed.
Recently it’s been my Dad birthday, Mothers Day & this last weekend would have been Mums birthday…
Such a hard time with theses ‘ first ‘ important dates isn’t it?….
It’s made we do tearful , exhausted & bit angry ( which is unlike me ) but I guess this grief process we are all on is so different for us all.
I feel so down with not having Mum around to talk too or hug.
It’s just so hard adjusting isn’t it?
Sending love to anyone who can feel the same & understand.
Will.

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Sending you gentle thoughts today, Will :blue_heart:

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I understand everything you have said. Mum passed in January mothers day felt awful. Its mums birthday this Thursday. Ive had some really hard days, " im now taking beta blockers for anxiety. Personally ive had other things to deal with, which have added to it. Adjusting to life without them is difficult :broken_heart:. I try to be kind to myself. Sending love back.

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Subo
Thank you for responding to my message.
Loosing a patent is so tough isn’t it.
Send my love & thoughts too you.
Two months on from Mum passing , I’m finding it so hard.
I miss her so much.
So thank you again for responding as I realise people feel the same at different times & I don’t feel so alone with my thoughts; as I don’t want to keep saying to friends how grief is making me feel.
It’s such a vid adjustment isn’t it.
Love for now
Will

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Nothing prepares you. All the thing’s, the news i have to say. The gossip!. The phone call i want to make. The wardrobes full of clothes. :sweat:

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I feel so the same Will, I’m utterly bereft without my mum. I totally understand and if you want to talk

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Hi Adam
Thanks for getting back.
It’s so so hard with out our Mums isn’t it…
It keeps hitting me out the blue.
I feel for you & all I can say is I’m here if yiu want to chat or get anything of your chest as I do find it helps …
Love & thoughts
Will.

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Thanks so much Will, it is such a comfort meeting other people like you in the same place. It would be lovely to chat more, you sound really like me.

I wish I had prepared more, she was my life xx

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