Hi, I lost my sister in 2020 to cancer. I’m finding it harder now than I did closer to the time.
Hello @Jenny1, I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. Two years is not a long time at all and it is understandable that you are finding things hard. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share some of our resources with you in case you found them helpful.
- Our Bereavement information pages
- Our Online Bereavement Support, which includes our free online bereavement counselling, our Grief Guide which has interactive tools to help you cope with grief, and Grief Coach, where you can receive personalised support via text
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Seaneen
I totally understand it’s 3 yrs since I lost my husband but also lost my mam last year I’m worse now
Jenny1 I know exactly what you mean I lost my husband two years ago and it far from feels any better I think the fact that everyday is more confirmation that they are not coming back makes it worse.
I’m 3 years in and I’m still struggling after losing my husband and then my mam last year wish there were still here