Oh right you already got a season ticket ! I see … 
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Nice car .i get my road tax on my disability
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Sold Tina slk last week as some no she loved james blunt. After jump starting the car cd came on playing james blunt it was lovely sitting in front drivers seat tina car listening going over memories xx clean tina car took everything out ummmm tiers rolling down . Had to go was not going to use keeping the jaguar it everything all memories just keep flooding back xx
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Ilovehorses.with being a right below knee amputee its better for me to have a big car as its easier for me to get into and I sometimes have to use a wheelchair and where i live in goole the weather can awful when it snows as we have to drive up onto the main road
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Hi Al . How’s everyone doing . …I had a conversation today at work . A lot of them was talking about pensions and when they retire . Most are in their 50s . I said to them they should live their lives now with their partners , not wait for retirement, none of us are guaranteed to reach retirement age , I felt like I was getting blank looks , and as if I was talking crap . I know it’s not a nice thing to think of . One partner dying . But as I know only to well , it does happen . Sometimes I think maybe I should just keep my mouth shut . I’m sure they now think of me as the Grim Reaper . …All x take carex
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Oh whatever! youre right !!!my husband didnt make it to pension age at 60. They all think they know it all. Let em learn the hard way xx
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It’s something that happens to everyone else - until the day it happens to you.
No one fully grasps the fragility of life - just take it for granted - until something happens, and then it’s too late.
I can’t say I was any different - even when I was faced with the CT scan of my partner’s 21 cm tumour, I thought surely not. This doesn’t happen to healthy 49 year olds - it’s a mistake.
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You’re certainly right there…never thought I would lose my husband at the age of 53 years old with undiagnosed cancer. He was working up to the day before with no known health issues. I thought it would be me to go first as on loads of medication. Life is certainly unfair and cruel. Another day same shit sadly Xx
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I think you were right to tell them! I can’t help looking at friends and thinking that this will happen to them at some point. It’s inevitable. I am constantly going on about the ‘live your life’ message and always have done ( my mum died very suddenly at 50 as well). Some listen, some don’t. Some think I’m an absolute nutter but, quite honestly, I don’t care! Take care all x
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Lol … like that … another day same shit ! Ha ha … aw hazel youre funny. What al life hey but glad that im busy for next few weeks. Helps doesnt it ? Snow due here tomorrow. That will be interesting xx
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Hi @ Debs5
My husband had a similar saying on his phone New Day same shit - lol
Snow they keep threatening so far here it is just wet windy and cold
Take care Lynne
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Let’s just hope they don’t have to learn the hard way . There’s to many lives being lost because of cancer . And we are left here in this horrible shit life .X
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I probably would be the same as them , if I’m honest . It’s just so wrong in everyway , that young healthy people aren’t able to win the battle against cancer . X
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I was sitting on a bus a few months after my husband had died . The oldish couple in front of me were having a right argument . I really wanted to tell them , time together is so short . It’s not worth arguing , love and cherish each other . I didn’t because I knew I would start crying . OR they might have started on me . X
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You have a great time ma have one in the summer we see just bad day today crying for no reason x
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@Martin2 hey you have every reason to cry , your heart is broken , you miss your partner so much , as well as grieving. Crying helps . Believe me . The amount I have cried the past two years . We are like pressure cookers . It all builds up , and we have to let the emotion escape some how . X
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Yeh isnt it : same shit, different day xx
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Yeh but if people dont listen what can you do ;(
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Deb5. Threatening to snow here as well.i look at couples and just feel so lost and alone without sue.they all say we know how you feel. But they have no idea how we feel do they
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No not really …and i know what you mean … very lonely without that special person in your life… that aloness … god makes you wonder how people in the past have survived it ? Just keep making friends martyn plus its good to have friends anyway … dont shut yourself off from the world … try to get out there and live. Sue would want you to live your life you know … xx
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