I lost my brother last Saturday night Sunday morning I’m still in shock he was such a good uncle 2 my 2 children he was my best friend and I can’t believe he’s left me I’m numb and there’s so much to do I’m like a zombie
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Hello @Lef ,
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling numb and like a Zombie, your grief is so new take it moment by moment. Try to take time for what you need rather than just what needs doing. I’m so sorry to hear about your brother and your mum’s ill health. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.
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Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
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Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
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Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
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Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex
To add insult 2 injury my dog Harry was pts on Tuesday please someone give us a chance